What Women Want, really?

I know I'm quite behind schedule. It has been another rough week for me (well not that really rough), but basically I was losing time to be in here. And I've got tons to say as of now. So here it goes.

Last week, I came across this article, entitled "What (Most) Women Want"...

http://thesinglewoman.net/2014/01/13/what-most-women-really-want/

Listed here are obvious and almost obvious things guys should very well take note when speaking of "putting the best foot forward" for the ladies, to promote appreciation, sincerity, conservatism, true and sheer love, and pretty much the rest of importance of what society is expected from us guys on how we should be treating the ladies (if trying to see all of these from the third person perspective). Don't get me wrong - I love these stuff. I would promote the same stuff. I love pampering the ladies, I would be 100% sincere to them. I would be conservative for them (or at least appear conservative). I would appreciate them wholly. It's not really hard to make me to all of these, but there's a 'but' after that (and I think this applies to most).

There are a good number of ladies have this as an "excuse" just to watch and sit out watching us do what we have to do while these ladies make a science out of it (which is of course unnecessary). The result? The ladies give out mixed signals. At times it's hard to spot the signs if they really want to be pursued or not. At times, when we guys give out compliments, though the latter may not be that mandatory, but the expressed gratitude just messes things up.

Then what happens next? Guys are kept hanging. Guys are seemingly becoming social experiments.

Now who wants that? Setting gender disparity aside, absolutely no one wants to be kept hanging. No one wants to a social experiment. Though there are some who loves that kind of adventure.

I'm not saying that I'm in that kind of situation right now because I am definitely not in that kind of situation. But if I would be in that situation again (I'm sure soon), I hope I wouldn't be kept hanging because I am sure I will not have the intention to do that. And if I would get turned down, I hope I get turned down in the best timing with the good reasons. I would definitely act out the best I could with the right signals.

But in what situation am I now with her?

Firstly, there are no more "I suddenly miss your hugs" or "we didn't talk much today" or "wanna talk?" or stealing pictures or having her sing and record Smile For Me. No more of those and a lot more stuff in the past few weeks.

She seems very guarded now compared before. She just told me awhile ago that she just wants to stay on low profile.

As for myself, I may appear to be a bit more detached, but I'm still here. I still feel amazingly the same for her. I just can't seem to send the message across. Because she seems very guarded.

More on this in the next entry. Soon.